All Men Are The Same

I keep hearing a symphony everywhere I go, and the chorus is always the same “Men Ain’t Shyt” ''All men are the same''. Have you ever considered the fact that if all the Men that YOU come across “ain’t shyt”, then maybe….just maybe it’s not them…it’s you? Whenever a female tries to come to me telling me her man ain’t shyt , I look at her sideways. If he ain’t shyt then what the Hell does that make YOU? your mates serve as mirrors, so whatever you see in him, resides in you. Who is giving BIRTH and PRODUCING all these “ain’t shyt” men? Where there are no decent WOMEN, there are no decent MEN, so if we can’t find decent men it is the DIRECT RESULT of your indecent behaviour as WOMEN. I mean every day, there is a rant, a post, a conversation, a script being written, that will state how men are trifling, don’t have nothing, won’t be nothing. Do you think that is motivational to we men? You think that inspires us to do better or be better for a group of women that have already deemed us “no good” and “failures”? Yet, you keep your favourite “Men Ain’t Shyt” songs on repeat.

At the end of it all, YOU are the common denominator in your failed relationships.
One of the worst things you do as a women is take advice from another bitter woman, she becomes like venom, poison and planting seeds of HER dissatisfaction in YOUR relationship .

Why can’t you just be honest with yourself? Instead of saying I don’t need a man; try saying some of the following:

“I wasn't taught how to “keep” a man, so I lash out and say I don’t need you. I was taught to be strong and independent, and that I was supposed to do everything by myself”.

“I was taught to never be a follower in the wrong connotation, so I don’t know how to see you as leader, because for the longest time, I thought the only place a Man could lead me was to hell, never stopping to understand the HELL that MY attitude and actions have created for you.”

"I've been HURT, I haven't allowed myself to heal from my pain, I don't know HOW to heal from my pain, but my pain has made me bitter and angry, and I think every man will be like the men from my past and hurt me, so instead of looking at the actions of an individual, it was much easier to place ALL men in the same "no good" category.

“So you see deep down it’s not that I don’t “need” you, I just didn't realize How MUCH I REALLY DO NEED YOU, so please be patient with me as BOTH of us find our way back to original selves, which will in turn lead us back to EACH OTHER.”

But honesty and accountability among women seems too much to ask for. You lay down with a so called bum, and expect to rise with perfection and when you don’t, it’s all HIS fault.