MEN & WOMEN.......

A couple's journal from the same day …

HER JOURNAL:
Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a nice restaurant for dinner. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it. Conversation wasn’t flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn’t say much. I asked him what was wrong; He said, ‘Nothing.’ I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn’t upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can’t explain his behavior. I don’t know why he didn’t say, ‘I love you, too.’ When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep...........I cried. I don’t know what to do.
I’m almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. Sobs, why meeee? Oh gosh! My life is a disaster

HIS JOURNAL:
Motorcycle won’t start, can’t figure out why.

Fola.

All Men Are The Same

I keep hearing a symphony everywhere I go, and the chorus is always the same “Men Ain’t Shyt” ''All men are the same''. Have you ever considered the fact that if all the Men that YOU come across “ain’t shyt”, then maybe….just maybe it’s not them…it’s you? Whenever a female tries to come to me telling me her man ain’t shyt , I look at her sideways. If he ain’t shyt then what the Hell does that make YOU? your mates serve as mirrors, so whatever you see in him, resides in you. Who is giving BIRTH and PRODUCING all these “ain’t shyt” men? Where there are no decent WOMEN, there are no decent MEN, so if we can’t find decent men it is the DIRECT RESULT of your indecent behaviour as WOMEN. I mean every day, there is a rant, a post, a conversation, a script being written, that will state how men are trifling, don’t have nothing, won’t be nothing. Do you think that is motivational to we men? You think that inspires us to do better or be better for a group of women that have already deemed us “no good” and “failures”? Yet, you keep your favourite “Men Ain’t Shyt” songs on repeat.

At the end of it all, YOU are the common denominator in your failed relationships.